‘A Hitch Hikers Guide in understanding the Other Side’.
There And Back Again
Learn the truth about where we come from, and how to get back!
Sybella L. Loram
AUTHOR’S NOTE
The inspiration to write this book stems from a blend of spiritual guidance and profound personal experiences. Since the age of five, I have been blessed with the extraordinary gifts of mediumship, clairvoyance, and the ability to perceive and sense spirits. Growing up in a 16th-century farmhouse, I encountered spirits from various eras, each carrying their unique stories from a bygone era. While these fascinating encounters offer rich reading material, they are tales for another time.
“I do not claim to be a superior psychic medium or a direct messenger of the creator. It is not my intention to assert my understanding of life and the hereafter is the absolute truth, nor to encourage the dismissal of other authors or perspectives. In today’s world, thanks to podcasts, YouTube, and KDP Amazon self-publishing, countless books, talk shows, and self-proclaimed Higher Masters or messengers of God are readily available. I do not wish to be perceived as one of them, nor do I make any such claims.”
However, my experiences with the unseen ones could fill several books, although this is not my message today. If this writing offends you in any way, I can only apologise to you. Try to have an open mind. You learned your current beliefs from somewhere or someone. Try to unlearn these so you can learn the truth, as it has been shown to me.
There will be some repetition, this is deliberate to reiterate the message, or it is just relevant to another passage.
The Start
Many people believe that time is not a linear progression of past, present, and future, but a singular, overlapping experience. This perspective suggests that those of us who see spirits are not witnessing hauntings in the traditional sense, but moments where different times briefly intersect. Is this true? In my experience, it certainly seems plausible. However, when my late father visits me to tell me off. He seems to me to be here in my time right now, so I sit on the fence for now.
Spirits who dwell in what I call “No-man’s-land”, also known as the earth plane, can remain stuck for a variety of reasons. Some fear facing the consequences tied to their religion, while others cling to earthly attachments — addictions, unfinished tasks, or an unwillingness to leave their living family behind, particularly common with children!
From the spiritual perspective of life, there is often a struggle to open these souls' eyes to the truth. These souls that are blinded by creeds and dogmas need guides and higher entities to help them transcend for their journey home. These guides do all they can to help them understand that God did not create dogmas or creeds. God, in fact, made many universes, with billions upon billions of other universes, realms and species that are nothing like humans. But they are all loved by our God and they are all connected to us. There is no right religion. There is no them and us.
These people live precariously; they live selfishly. These people do not shine; they do not acknowledge that God is part of them. That God lives through you. They live in ignorance. Some fear God, they fear reprisal, and judgement, they live in the dark. They have not opened their souls’ eyes to work in the light, or understanding the truth of God's light and why they are in a physical body.
It is important that humanity learns the truth, that God is the sun within your heart, and when you shine, you show others what true love is. The definition of love/God is living by example, without creed, dogma or worshiping through a priest, or a religious temple. When you live a life or compassion, kindness, generosity to those in need not through organized religions, but helping the homeless, hungry, and unfortunate. You are part of the divine, you should ignite the part of you that shows God as the loving, kind, forgiving, compassionate God. A God that loves each of us individually, as we are all connected to the source, we are all part of the creator. Or the creator is part of all of us.
Those who live though their religions' creeds, dogmas and rituals, repenting their sins to a perceived human higher power, do not understand God. Donating money or paying for the church roof, receiving the local religious representative over for dinner. Volunteering for flower arranging or organizing the church's fate. Does not bring us closer to the creator. It does not win us brownie points either.
None of this is what God wishes for us, and you do not gain the creators' favour for any of this. We should be free to worship or pray in any way we deem fit. Be this in a field or place of personal meaning or through your heart as you appreciate nature. Do not waste your life in a meaningless pursuit to gain the creators' favour through these religious falsehoods. Kindness, who have you helped, showing people the authentic way through representation, fulfilling our service while here is the way to God's heart. Shine, and know you are never judged or condemned.
Repetitive prayers from a religious doctrine, does not always come from the heart. You are just repeating the same words over and over. When we return to our ancient home, we return without our mind, names, religions, and bodies. We return to be with those that have watched over us, to light and love. The veil we came into this world with is lifted, we remember our true selves. We are rejoined with our higher selves. We return to our ancient home.
Self-flagellation means nothing to the creator. Giving up your life to enter some religious cult, or missionary for God, your gift of speech for God, your right to enjoy and pro create for God will not be recognized by the divine. The lives of nuns, catholic priests, monks, and the pope, are so unnecessary, and such a waste of the gift of life. A soul may choose to reincarnate as one of these religious orders, for a souls lesson. But it is not necessary to bring us closer to the creator.
What you did to help others whilst existing within the boundaries of these lives will. But you did not need to give up all your God-given gifts of freedom in this life to accomplish this. People don’t want to hear the truth because they don’t want their illusions destroyed.
I would like you to visualise a creator who wishes to work
through each of us individually, regardless of our origins, possessions
or achievements in the material world. A God who does not require so many ways of worship through grand demonstrations, donations, sacrifices, or displays of greatness. For God’s work through us does not need money, atonement, miracles, followers, or recognition. Each person can manifest God’s love through spiritual nature, kind representation and respect for one another, for Mother Earth and all sentient beings we share our home with.
There is a piece of God in every one of us, a part that is calling
us home, capable of influencing without money, power, celebrity status
or religious authority. God is not conniving, treacherous, self-indulgent,
or selfish. The Creator of over a billion planets, realms and universes
does not exploit others for personal gain and most certainly did not
create man in his own image.
None of the creators creations has the right to judge or forgive a person's sins. God does not judge, condemn or punish any soul. There is no hell. Hell is created by our own minds and misgivings. War is hell, rejecting loved ones in need is hell. Judging then punishing those supposedly found guilty is hell. What loving God would justify, burning, hanging, the cause of excruciating pain with prolonged way of dying. Slavery, war camps, the holocaust, the abuse of any living species. This is the creation of man, not God. This is hell.
God is like the sun, where there is love in your heart, you are like the sun to other. Do unto others. Love thy neighbour. Who here is without sin, cast the first stone.
Returning to our ancient home — Heaven
When we leave this world, there are some spirits who are unaware they have lost their physical body. They continue to exist as though they are still living on the physical plane. There are those that linger, waiting for the great coming of their particular deity, fear of reprisal, damnation, even those that believe they will awaken from the grave, for some great resurrection. They are the chosen, they await their moment of glory.
As previously pointed out, these fears are unfounded, often rooted in their earthly experiences, shaped by cultural influences, upbringing, persecution, and the doctrines of the religions they were made/chose to follow. This is not what or where we return to.
Our Ancient Home is where we return to the reality of life, and the state of awareness and relationships we had before entering the particular world we were sent to serve. This, our ancient home, is a state of connection, we find ourselves back with our Spiritual Family, the Angelic Assembly, and God.
The Higher Self versus the Spirit Guide
The distinction between the Higher Self and Spiritual Teachers is indeed a nuanced concept and often misunderstood, especially with varying interpretations presented by spiritual authors. Here’s a way to clarify:
Your higher self is part of your soul, you are always connected. This is timeless and intimately tied to you during your psychical life's purpose; guiding you toward growth, balance, and alignment. When we reincarnate, only a small portion of our soul temporarily breaks away from our higher self. Meanwhile, our higher self/ the other part of our soul remains back in the spirit realms. There is a theory that parts of our soul are living parallel lives at the same time. This can be on other planets, star systems, or in different time zones.
The soul does not always come from the same divine creation. We are a mass of multiple divine creations. Billions upon billions and more. There are entities from other realms who incarnate on earth (Star Seeds) who come to the earth to share their advanced wisdom, helping humans to develop to a higher consciousness. You can often spot these light beings as they are so enlightened, and wise, they stand out, often struggling to blend in. Their hearts are so full of love and light, they tend to glow. Example Lady Diana, Ghandi, Nelson Mandela.
The confusion often arises because both are seen as sources of wisdom and inspiration. Just remember, the Higher Self is a part of your soul. While Spiritual Teachers are external helpers. Understanding this distinction allows for a clearer sense of where guidance originates and how to approach it in your personal spiritual practice.
Our Guides and Teachers
As you begin to view life as a network of developing relationships, you come to realize that your higher self is intricately woven into this greater fabric of connection. It is the part of you that is deeply linked to your guides and teachers, forming an essential bond within this expansive network. You are never alone, you are constantly surrounded by those that love you, wish to help you, teach and guide you for your highest good.
Unlike us, these guides exist beyond duality; they have transcended the need for a separate self-embodied in physical form. You, however, embody two aspects: the soul that originates from the creator and the spirit present in your current lifetime — the part of you that exists here and now, engaging with these words. Then there is “knowledge” the part of you that is directly connected to God.
This is why you have guides, teachers, and family who often intervene in subtle ways, attempting to push you even when you are unaware of what needs to be done. It’s important to recognize that you will need assistance, so accepting this help is crucial as you continue on your journey. You must listen to your intuition, there is no coincidence, only guidance along with synchronicity. You are never alone, you are always been helped, you are always loved by those who stay back in your ancient home.
We do not have personal Guardian Angels as Guides
Angels and the Angelic Realms
“Spiritual Teachers are external beings, while our soul families are part of our learning journey, that we study and grow together with. Our guides may include enlightened souls, ascended masters, and energies from higher realms. Our family from past lives or wise ancient souls can also take on a guiding role, offering support throughout our life plan. Grandparents, siblings, and even pets who have crossed over before us often step in to help. While they are not official spirit guides, they watch over us and assist when they can. However, we do not have personal angels — Spiritual Guides, yes. Personal angels, no.”
Not having personal angels, what some refer to as guardian angels, will be upsetting. This may be upsetting to you. Angels may pay a person a visit through extreme incidents. This is rare, and when it does happen, it is often our guides, not angels.
There are books out there claiming they see angels, that they have direct contact with the Arch Angel Michael, Gabrielle and Mother Mary. I believe that our spirit beings appear to us in a way we will understand.
There is an Angelic Realm, which is created to be part of a hierarchy of service to oversee the world's redemption, with the eventual return home to the creator. Angelic Assemblies are extremely divine creations. They oversee all planets with sentient life on it. Every world with life has its own Angelic Realm. It is rare that these beautiful beings that are so close to the divine visit us personally. They are the protectors of all the creators' worlds throughout billions upon billions of galaxies and realms. They oversee the particular race of each planet, designated by God. Not just for humanity.
The Angelic Assembly has been the voice for many previous messengers, translating the message of God throughout the appropriate times in history. This was so those who receive God's revelation, the will of God, could comprehend the message appropriately. Adam, Moses, crishner, Budha, Mahamad, Sole, and Jesus, to name but a few, did not hear the voice of God; They heard the voice of the Angelic Assembly; Synonymous with the terms Angelic Presence, and Angelic Host.
We are living during a unique time in history for the opportunity of a profound education that can clarify many errors in religious thinking and cast all of god’s previous revelations in a new and much deeper light.
Wherever you are living, whatever your circumstances, you are living at a time of revelation. A Revelation as good as any Revelation from humanity's past.
For in humanity’s history of this world and all worlds, the process of Revelation is the same. An individual is selected and sent into the world. When they reach a certain stage in their development and maturity, they are called out of normal circumstance, called to a great rendezvous, a greater encounter with the Angelic Prence that oversees that world. They are called into a greater service and prepared for a great service, prepared to bring something new into the world. This will be a new threshold, not some improvement on a new perspective. ( today it is Marshall Vain Summers — http://www.newmessage.org
Our Soul Groups
Our Spiritual Family, this refers to a small group formed to enable individual souls to work towards a greater state of union. To eventually join larger, more advanced groups of learning. This brings us closer to God. These souls are our connections as we transcend through various incarnations, then collaborate through our many lifetimes.
The term soul mate is often misunderstood to mean the love of our life, dearest and closet friend. This is not the case. Often those that have caused us the most pain throughout life can, in fact, be our soul mates. Although not always.
They would have volunteered to incarnate with us, to help us learn about a particular soul's path. Hence, we should not condemn, blame, hate, or resent those that have wronged us. Do not er against those that have wronged you, thank them for the lessons you have learned through them. i.e. practice compassion, forgiveness, empathy, patience or unconditional love.
However, it should be pointed out that our soul groups are not always incarnated with us, they could be incarnated in a completely different realm beyond our world. If we do incarnate together during a particular life, we are most probably meant to meet up to accomplish a particular service for our life's purpose, then they most probably move on. They are rarely destined to be our soul mates as partners indefinitely.
This could be a partnership, such as Lady Di and Price Charles. Look what the world learned through this relationship. Even Bonie and Clyde made their mark, and there is a lesson there somewhere.
So remember that members of your soul family may share the same incarnation or exist separately across different planetary locations. Regardless of the physical distance, you remain deeply connected, supporting each other throughout the learning process across various lifetimes and dimensions, wherever you may be.
A crucial aspect of the soul’s journey is to find those individuals that we are
destined to share a life’s purpose with. The search for these kindred
spirits can often occupy the early stages of the soul’s development. It
is important to always act upon positive impulses and remain open to
guidance in all its forms.
Many times we go through our lives not meeting those that we are destined to be with. Although we are not condemned for this, we will probably have to come back and try again. ( reincarnation) It is free will that can cause problems.
The idea that soul mates or twin flames can take on challenging roles, like being an adversary or a difficult family member, to teach us lessons adds a profound layer to the understanding of relationships. So please remember, soul mates are rarely our beloved spouses or friends. They are part of our team that can take on an extremely challenging role for us in any lifetime, arranged as part of the life plan, to help with our learning and karma.
This perspective emphasizes the idea that every interaction and relationship in our lives has a purpose, even if it’s not immediately apparent. We do have karma to live through, various people that will fit into our jigsaw that we prearranged to complete the puzzle. These may not be from our soul family. They are just part of life's tapestry.
Our spirit guides, though often highly evolved, are also on their own journeys of growth, learning alongside us as we navigate our physical existence. The realms of our true home are vast and multi-dimensional, stretching across galaxies, countless star systems, and countless planets. These realms are composed of innumerable levels of existence, inhabited by a limitless variety of guides, teachers, soul groups, angelic beings, masters, animals, and alien entities — a world far beyond human comprehension. My father's home has many mansions.
Reincarnation — The facts without any religion.
This concept may be hard for some of you to grasp, but like it or not, it is the truth. You deliberately chose your parents, personality, star sign, culture, IQ, family environment, disabilities, physical form, gifts, spouses, whether to have children, life-changing accidents, and relationships. These choices were not random — they were made to align with the growth and challenges essential for your current lifetime. To even out karma, help other souls in their journey, or to teach. This is especially relevant to higher entities known as Star Seeds.
Your task now is to bring the self you have created into harmony with your Higher Self. Part of our aim, through many incarnations, is to develop into a teacher or guide, transcending the need for physical incarnation. Think of it as a graduation — a fulfillment of your spiritual journey.
This learning extends to your soul family or group, which functions much like a class in school. Together, you are at the same level, akin to streams seeking to merge with rivers and, ultimately, reach the vast oceans.
We are all journeying along the same path, though each of us is currently
moving in a different direction.
Growing up in the 1970s and attending traditional church services,
I was never taught about reincarnation; it was not even a topic open for
discussion in Sunday School. Therefore, it’s not surprising that many
modern Christians are unaware that reincarnation was a widely accepted
belief during Christ’s time.
For many years, followers of Christ’s teachings believed that the soul
has neither a beginning nor an end; it is infinite. We enter this world
bearing the strengths or weaknesses earned from previous lives. Over the
centuries, reincarnation was such a prevalent belief among Christians
that the Roman Emperor Justinian banned the idea in the 6th century
AD, seeking total obedience from his subjects by ensuring they feared
eternal punishment. Many religions opted for this type of domineering persuasion. That is why many of the written scrolls are not to be trusted today. So much editing, manipulation, along with coercing has lost the original message from the divine.
In Southern France, a Christian sect known as the
Cathars believed that god reside’s within everyone and everything,
that one can connect with the divine through meditation and prayer,
independent of any religious fanatics. They, too, believed in reincarnation.
Imagine reincarnation as part of the soul’s evolution, were, instead,
of just one life, we experience numerous lifetimes, each offering a chance
to grow, learn and make good our mistakes. (karma)
The challenges and temptations we face from birth
to death, requires many lifetimes of effort to live according to the divine
laws. Even then, it would depend on which interpretation of god
one follows. With reincarnation, the soul can strengthen, learn then
grow thus rectifying past wrongs. No judgement or hell. No damnation, only love and learning.
You might liken the planning of a soul’s life in the physical world to
programming the ‘Holodeck’ from Star Trek. You choose the time, the
people you will encounter, your appearance, your actions, the struggles
you will face and the karma you will address. How hard this chosen incarnation will be. You also have a chief counsel, plus your soul group, to talk you through it.
Life has a unique purpose for each of us — a divine plan, a blueprint where there is a spiritual map you can access. You have a unique role to play, and you are the only one of you that exists.
Life will be cluttered with personal desires, ambitions, fears, and complexities, thus experiencing free will that can, and often will, cause challenges along with lessons to overcome. The vehicle, which is your body, plus brain, along with your personality, is a means to carry your true essence through each life. When we leave our mortal life, we do not take our bodies, minds, religious beliefs, or any other personal hangups with us.
We are not our bodies, names, minds or previous status. If we were king or Queen it matters not. If we were rich or poor, famous, lower or higher class, it matters not. Think of your body as a space suit, your character a name tag, your culture a starting point for your soul's learning.
Your accomplishments required on the psychical planes will be far more advanced if you spent your life willfully helping others with a pure heart. Even the smallest gesture of genuine kindness will override the stony heart of a millionaire that donated thousands to charity. Our elders back at home can see into our soul. You cannot pay your way to reach the higher realms. Action speaks louder than money.
This phenomenal creation is not the true you. The true you is the soul that resides within, temporarily separated from home, where there is no physical experience. Your true home is vast, with many realms and opportunities in the spiritual form. When you leave this life, you return home, leaving the body, the personality, brain, and the name of who you were behind. You are not the person reading this. You are a soul having a physical experience.
As you read this book, keep an open mind. Be willing to unlearn much of what you have already been taught. This process of unlearning will help you shed unnecessary burdens, providing reassurance that a fulfilling life is not only possible, but inevitable, for you. Reflect on this while viewing its truth in light of your current perception of the world.
To truly grow, we must unlearn certain beliefs, opening ourselves to receiving the guidance necessary for us to learn our true purpose. In doing so, we can move beyond ego into a position where we can fulfill the reason we are here, in the current body we inhabit, with the unique circumstances of our current incarnation. Instead of living your life with regret, put right what you can with the time you have left. Then return next time with a better life plan.
Without a rational purpose, the freedom we have can so easily lead to a chaotic life, a life without the structures or spiritual guidance needed to achieve meaningful goals.
While we may overcome challenges and discover aspects of ourselves,
along the way, the question remains: is this truly why you are here? Is
this your calling, your Dharma, your life’s purpose? Are you serving your
Soul Family and fulfilling your destiny? Honestly, the answer is most
likely going to be ‘no’.
The human ego operates very differently from the soul’s purpose, yet your true essence — your connection to source — remains eternal. Remember ego means ‘Edging God Out’.
Each incarnation is recorded in the Akashic Records, accessible to
all who wish to learn and understand. It is very similar to watching a
historical documentary that can be experienced instantaneously by the
observer as if they were there. On the other side, time travel is possible,
you can explore billions upon billions of realms, galaxies, and planets with merely a thought.
As the soul incarnates repeatedly, it seeks to gain knowledge, wisdom, and experience within a physical environment. Among the billions of dimensions, realms, and planets, Earth — with its dense atmosphere, gravitational pull, and reliance on five senses — offers unique opportunities for growth. Here, the soul can encounter a wide range of negative events and extreme traumas, testing inner strength and teaching profound lessons in tolerance, compassion, forgiveness, and love.
Earth stands apart as one of the few planets that offer a certain amount of freedom. This is where a soul can experience emotions like fear, loneliness, abandonment, rejection, objectification, exploitation, and even atrocities such as murder and rape. It functions almost like a boarding school — a place for profound learning and teaching, drawing beings from many planets to its unique challenges.
Many of the planets in the Milky Way galaxy are operated by strict control. Even your children are taken from you to be brought up for some practical purpose to serve the government of that planet. Freedom is extremely rare in the ‘Greater Community’ ( The Greater Community Explained by Marshall Vain Summers)
As I pointed out earlier, it is important to remember that not all souls incarnated in human bodies originate from our star system or incarnate on the planet Earth. While this revelation may be surprising or unsettling to some, it underscores the extraordinary complexity and diversity of existence on Earth. I invite you to continue exploring this perspective, if for nothing else than sheer curiosity.
The Great Waves of Change
We are living in a period of unprecedented global change. Environmental degradation, resource depletion, economic instability and other
emerging crises that are converging and intensifying as I write. They are
having a profound effect on the stability of our societies and threatening
the survival of sentient mammals in the future.
While all this is happening, other forms of intelligent life within the
universe are making contact with our human civilisation. (The Great Waves of Change by Marshall Vain Summers)
Unbeknown to the majority of people, this contact has been taking place for over eighty years, representing an incursion into our world by unknown forces not of our planet. Our isolation in this magnificent universe is over, representing a major challenge and threshold in the evolution for humanity.
So why are we here? What is the purpose of humanity’s existence,
and what happens to us after we cease to exist? It is clear that we can no
longer consider ourselves to be the centre of the Creator’s focus. As more
and more people distance themselves from local religious influences
and the outdated dogmas that have been exploited for war, control and
dictatorship, we observe a growing trend: individuals and their families
no longer hold God dear. In an ever-changing world, God seems less
present in their experiences of life, while technology is taking over. We are literally worshiping technology.
Throughout history, all of God’s messages delivered to the world have
aimed to uplift humanity and promote the freedom necessary for the
development of human civilisation. While every religion originates from
divine guidance, human intervention has often altered these teachings,
sometimes obscuring their original purpose. However, the fundamental
intent behind all world religions, as initiated by God, has been to
empower human civilisation to thrive and strengthen, to evolve in a loving way.
Sadly, as more of us increasingly neglect the work and purpose of our
creator, as well as the profound wisdom and beauty of Mother Earth,
we distance ourselves from the ongoing divine assistance that is meant
to guide us towards our goals. This disconnection makes it harder for
us to discover the true meaning of our lives or to reach our intended
destinations. Therefore, it is crucial for each of us, whether individually
or in groups, to remain aware of the subtle, often fleeting inspirations
that come our way, no matter how vague, small or abstract they may
seem. We must learn to listen carefully, for we are constantly being
communicated with through higher forms of energy — manifestations of
God’s messengers, healers and helpers.
Consider your life as a treasure hunt, here where each clue you uncover leads you to new adventures. Discovering your true companions in this life is a profound gift; if you are fortunate enough to find them, you must embrace your shared purpose with accountability and intention. Your growth and theirs become intertwined, making your mutual development essential. At this stage, you are not only practising the path of enlightenment for yourself but also for the benefit of others. To
falter now would be to fail not just yourself but also your Spiritual Family and the future of humanity.
As you navigate this journey, remember that while there may be
no Great Masters in the world today, there are many Great Teachers.
Approach the world without condemnation, but with clarity and
discernment. Without a greater purpose, human relationships cannot
fulfil their greater meaning and value, we are so often at the mercy of the
world and its governing conditions.
Talk to God, whether through prayer, quiet contemplation, or casual
conversation as you walk amongst nature. God is a friend, a divine energy that loves us, that wishes to help us. Reach out to God, then feel the love that responds. There is no need for grand demonstrations, you can reach the creator from sitting by a brooke, walking in a field or watching nature.
Meditate, sit quietly and seek answers in the trees, the birds and the wonders of your natural surroundings. Always listen carefully, never dismiss what you observe or hear, and don’t hesitate to ask God anything, no matter how dark it may seem. God understands the challenges of the physical world — the addictions, temptations, traumas and wrong decisions we regularly face.
There is no shame in these struggles, for God will not judge you.
Instead, God will offer compassion, love and the strength to guide you
positively. Remember, unless it is your life’s purpose to harm another,
God would never lead you down such a path. (More on this subject will
be explored in subsequent chapters.)
You will know when you are fulfilling your authentic life’s purpose because
your actions, whatever they may be, will bring a profound sense of inner
fulfilment and an undeniable certainty that this is exactly how things
are meant to be. You will experience a deep knowledge (The Power of Knowledge, by Marshall Vain Summers) that is uniquely
yours, an inner wisdom that will guide you if you pay attention and
listen closely.
This inner voice will lead you on the right path.
When you chose your life, along with your life’s purpose, on your
chosen planet and in your chosen physical form, it was God — the divine
Spiritual Energy — who crafted the personal framework where your soul
would reside. This framework was designed to help you navigate the
challenges that will arise as you pursue your life’s mission.
I want you to remember that God does not judge; the Creator’s
only desire is to help you in every way possible to fulfil the purpose for
which you are here. Throughout your life, you will encounter countless
challenges — some preordained, others arising from choices made
through free will.
God will never encourage you to do anything that conflicts with your
life’s purpose or goes against love, kindness, compassion or forgiveness.
There is no war or treacherous act in the universe that God would ever condone, whether in his name or that of any other. But with the free
will we possess, humanity can manifest violence and
heinous acts, often justifying them by invoking the Creator’s various
names. God becomes what individuals want him to be, according to
their own desires and beliefs.
Sadly, it is the human mind that inflicts judgment on others — the
ego that harbours hate, the desire to dominate rather than share, the
need to rule, dictate and subdue those who are weaker. This is not the
way of love, nor is it the way of the Creator, who embodies all that is
love. God does not create the suffering in our world, nor will God be the
one to end it; unfortunately that responsibility lies with us.
You will receive the unconditional love off our Creator regardless of your circumstances. This love is not bestowed through outdated fear-
based religious dogma — such as threats of hell, eternal damnation, or guilt-driven demands for donations through televised campaigns or
religious ceremonies. Instead, it is offered through a more spiritual,
kind-hearted and open-minded approach.
By connecting with your Higher Self, you can create miracles in your
own life, inspire others and live as a positive example, setting off a ripple
effect of benevolence. Avoid falling into a victim mentality; instead,
share your painful experiences and use them as tools to help others. Even
in the darkest of times, something positive can be found if we are willing
to take the time to look deeply enough.
If we can let go of self-entitlement and cultivate self-awareness, we
can learn to care for those around us — even that stranger down the
street. Raise your children with manners, teach them to be mindful
of the consequences of their actions, and instil in them a respect for
their elders, a sense of gratitude and compassion for the planet, animals
and all sentient beings. Community and family play crucial roles in a child’s development. Parents must be mindful of their words, actions
and inactions, as they shape the adults and future leaders their children
will become.
Self-love is essential, for it allows all that is good within you to
manifest then shine as an example to others. Teach then express kindness
not just to friends and family but also to strangers. To love others, one
must first learn to love oneself. You cannot expect to share love if you
are drained and filled with self-loathing, just as you cannot squeeze juice
from a dried-up, rotten orange. We often become the products of what
we have been taught, shown or exposed to.
Exchanging positive energy — through thoughts, actions, prayer,
reading, singing, or meditation. Join a circle of healing or learning, better still create one. Pray for those trapped souls in the dark earth planes, let your light guide them home.
Figures like Lady Diana exemplified compassion, using media attention to show the world what can be accomplished through basic empathy and kindness. Sir Bob Geldof highlighted the horrors of famine through Live Aid, and the song Free Nelson Mandela used music to bring global attention to injustice. On the other hand, history also shows us the devastating consequences of exchanging negative energy, as seen in the actions of dictators like Hitler and Stalin.
Religious persecution often results in societal and governmental
regulations that infringe on human rights, leading to wars fought in
the name of our Creator. But God is love, and we are here on Earth to
give and receive love, to serve, support, and learn. Our souls are eternal;
life on Earth is merely a temporary experience, we are living in temporary separation.
This essay is one of many paths that can guide you on a journey to
find God in a more personal and centred way, with no
cathedrals, priests, leaders or any organised group that may ask for your money. It will help you listen to your Higher Self — the part of you that is connected to your soul family, spiritual teachers, and your ancient home. Your Higher Self will offer you a clearer spiritual perspective on why you are here, where you go after this life, and who you truly are beyond the physical body, mind, or ego.
Everyone has the right to discover, experience, and build a loving
relationship with God in their own unique way. We are not defined by
our bodies or our past actions; what matters is what we achieve in the
present. Put in place your intention to do good, watch your world
blossom as you live your dreams here in the physical realm.
As you live a life aligned with this divine purpose, opportunities arise unexpectedly, synchronicities appear and you begin to sense that God is communicating directly with you.
Why are we here?
We exist before any incarnation, residing in our true home on the
‘flipside’, heaven etc. As mentioned earlier, extensive planning goes
into our incarnations, wherever they may be. Always with the guidance of teachers, soul friends, soul families, high councils and spirit guides. Nothing is left to chance; years of planning can go into a lifetime, no matter where or how long it may last. Even a child who lives only a few hours after birth would have meticulously planned that brief lifetime. The parents, too, would have agreed, understanding the lesson the soul intended to learn and teach through this substantial loss — whether the lesson itself was about karma, forgiveness, compassion, or trust.
with a filter on our minds that blocks memories of where we’ve just come
from or previous lifetimes, bearing in mind that this could be in the
hundreds. This filter is essential for survival; if the soul remembered the
beautiful, abundant realm it had just left, it would be less motivated to
engage fully in the learning experiences on its chosen planet. It would be
like taking an exam knowing that you would pass regardless of studying,
leading you to drop out and return home.
We are all here to learn at varying levels through different
circumstances. Think of your presence in a physical body as standing
on a stage, while being out of the body as off-stage.
When an actor is on stage, they are not aware of previous roles or plays they have participated in because their focus is solely on the role, they are playing right at that moment. The soul, just like the actor, strives to do its best with the stage props, costumes and fellow actors available to it, hoping to convey its story to the audience (or if you like flipside), attempting to earn their approval.
While one part of us is on stage, it remains connected to our
Higher Self, the part of us that stays back home. Our Higher Self is
aware of everything we encounter — our thoughts, actions, encounters
and intentions. Nothing escapes the notice of our guides, soul group,
council or the Creator. We are constantly being directed towards the
right people, places and events that we need to fulfil our dharma.
When we sleep, we travel back home in what is known as ‘Astral
Projection’. During these visits, we consult with our Higher Self, guides
and council, and even reunite with loved ones who have passed from
the time of our current incarnation. While our bodies rejuvenate, our
souls catch up on lessons, tutoring and possibly some constructive
feedback. Those off-stage colleagues are always aware of us, guiding and
intervening when necessary — if allowed. Psychics or clairvoyants may
find it easier to receive their help, while other people might be unaware
of their presence.
Much of our thoughts, ideas, inventions and inspirations originate
from our time off-stage. Books, lyrics, music and even the impulse
to call a friend you haven’t seen for a while often originate from our
spiritual home. Have you ever bumped into someone and remarked
that you were just thinking about them? That’s called synchronicity, not
coincidence. Or consider the time you missed the train you’ve taken for
ten years, only to learn it crashed, killing hundreds of people. Was it just
luck, or something more? Many people dreamt of the Titanic sinking or
became sick, preventing them from boarding. Was this kharma?
Our lives are not unlike a chess game, with us as the pieces being
manoeuvred around the board. We often blame God for the wrongs
in our world, but of course they are the result of our own free will and
choices, designed to help us learn our mistakes. The human brain is
designed for third-dimensional experiences, while much of the soul’s
communication happens through the heart.
You may already be familiar with chakras, the seven energy centres
within the body that begin at the crown of the head and extend down to
the base of the spine. When these chakras are in balance and functioning
well, they enable the smooth flow of Qi energy throughout the body.
However, when these energy centres are disrupted by stress, anxiety or
emotional turmoil, it can negatively impact your overall well-being. The
‘heart chakra’ is essential for discerning truth and good intentions –
hence the phrase ‘follow your heart’.
Your unique DNA was created to help you fulfil your divine purpose,
including the obstacles you face. These challenges are meant to strengthen
you, preparing you for your next divine challenge. As you seek your life’s
purpose, your divine light will shine and you will become a beacon for
others to learn from. Let your actions be inspirational, your thoughts
positive, and your life a guiding example for others to follow.
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Remember, you do not only live once. There is no God in the ego and you are NEVER alone. Ever!
Thank you
