How do you get out of your spiritual closet and live your divine purpose?
You have a wisdom waiting to be discovered — the true will, the true self that the creator intended you to be. Many of us go through life feeling disconnected from this truth, unknowingly chasing something false, something without a solid foundation in our being.
If you’ve ever felt betrayed by the truth, it may be because you didn’t see its value at the time. Perhaps it shattered your dreams, disrupted your plans, or dismantled the vision you had for your life. The house you longed for, the lover you obsessed over, the job or promotion you believed would transform everything — none of these came to fruition. But in reality, not achieving these desires may have spared you from pain, misery, or paths that weren’t meant for you.
Your destiny isn’t defined by your wants or fantasies. It’s shaped by your deeper purpose — perhaps something you’ve yet to realize. Maybe you’re not here to be a famous singer, but instead, you’re meant to be an extraordinary life coach, guiding and empowering millions. Not what you thought you wanted, but the truth of who you are.
When we let go of the illusions we cling to and embrace the truth, even when it feels difficult, we align ourselves with our purpose. It’s in accepting this truth that we find the path we were meant to walk.
Until you uncover your life’s dharma — your true purpose for being here in this body — you may struggle to see how truth has been working in your favor. The truth remains unrecognized until you align with it, and without that connection, you may find yourself claiming roles and justifying actions that conflict with universal energy, your inner guides, and your higher self.
This misalignment may also distance you from the wisdom of loved ones in spirit, your divine gift of inner knowledge, the inner knowing that holds the secret to your life purpose. Discovering your truth allows you to embrace the truth, harmonize with universal energy, and fully step into the life you were meant to live.
Remember that when these other roles, desires, and quests get discouraged or denied by the truth (the universe, manifestation, higher self), it is because you are not on your life path; you are not following the route that was set out for you before you arrived. You are being saved from a greater error, from pain, from mistakes that would have transpired otherwise.
Many souls leave this life without completing their sole purpose. Many souls have to return through reincarnation to try again. So read on and learn the importance of listening to your inner knowledge and listening to your guides. Learn to recognize the universal signs, understanding the importance of knowing your true authentic self, not the ego self, the false self. Don’t set yourself up to have to return for a groundhog life, because you didn’t listen to the universe and the truth. Your authenticity is inside you, dig deep and read on.
Many people are caught in a web of thoughts, opinions, and judgments passed down by friends, lovers, religion, culture, or family indoctrination. These influences build a self-enclosed world, one where perception is tarnished by preconceived ideas. This limited view prevents them from seeing the truth, or the vast opportunities the universe offers.
Blinded by these learned perspectives, they lose sight of life’s possibilities. Their thoughts color every experience so completely that they struggle to see life for what it truly is — a canvas full of potential waiting to be explored.
Try taking 15–20 minutes out or your day, sit or lie down in a quiet place. Turn off all electronic devices. Take a few slow, deep breaths, and let your mind calm. When you feel still, think of a happy achievement — something you’re proud of accomplishing.
Focus on that memory. Reflect on how you overcame challenges along the way. Notice any moments of luck or things that fell into place unexpectedly. Feel gratitude for how it all worked out and for the effort you put in.
Let this sense of pride and strength fill you up. When you’re ready, take a deep breath, open your eyes, and return to the present moment.
Synchronicity is the occurrence of meaningful coincidences that seem to be more than random chance. It often involves moments where events align in a way that supports or redirects a person toward a specific path, goal, or outcome. These experiences can be seen as signs that the universe, or one’s inner guidance system, is at work.
For example, consider a scenario where someone misses their train to an important interview. At the station, a stranger asks for directions, and it turns out they are headed to the same interview. This interaction leads to a shared car ride and perhaps even a lasting connection, like a friendship or partnership. On reflection, it becomes evident that this was more than just coincidence — this was synchronicity at play.
Synchronicity often feels like external events aligning to serve a purpose or goal. It suggests that when a person is on the right path, seemingly random occurrences can act as guideposts. Recognizing these moments requires reflection and an openness to understanding that not all outcomes are directly controlled but may still serve a greater purpose.
By identifying and appreciating synchronicity, individuals can gain insight into their journey, strengthen their sense of purpose, and develop trust in the natural flow of life. It highlights the interconnectedness of events and how even unexpected setbacks can contribute to achieving meaningful outcomes.
This time clear your mind, relax, and take deep breaths. Think back to a painful moment when nothing went right — a missed opportunity or failure. Reflect on how, at the time, it felt disappointing. Now, consider that it wasn’t bad luck but the universe guiding you. That path wasn’t meant for you, as it aligned you with your true purpose. Carry this understanding forward with gratitude and awareness.
If pain from the past surfaces, let yourself feel it, make space for the pain. Acknowledge the pain for what it was or is. Accept the discouragement and the sadness it brings. Then, gently explore how that loss may have served a greater purpose in your life. Look for the bigger picture, where truths and lessons emerge, and allow yourself to embrace them fully.
Embracing Errors for Growth
It is futile to justify mistakes. However, errors can serve as powerful tools to bring you closer to truth and deeper understanding. While condoning mistakes isn’t beneficial, the universe guides you to learn from them, ensuring they are not repeated. Look at them as a kind of teaching lesson.
Every success story after consecutive failures begins with acceptance. An individual would never learn to rise from failure if he didn’t accept that he had failed, thus seeking improvement. Thanks to the human ego many of us believe we are perfect. This leads to disappointment when we fail. This is especially prevalent the failures is reoccurring. This is why it is important to acknowledge that failure is not the end of life and that we only fail to actually learn. So don’t accept the failures in your life. Learn from it then continue to try fail, try fail, as many times as it takes. This is why you are here in this life utilizing the body you are in.
This is not a reason to or justify them. Doing so would be dishonest. Instead, the universe encourages us to recognize our mistakes, acknowledge them as errors, and transform them into opportunities for growth and self-improvement's.
Recognize that the universe is trying to help you, show you the truth, and guide you. The pain of error, along with the tribulation of error, must be accepted. Then this will teach you what is real and what is not, what to value and what not to value. Knowledge will show you the truth. Until we can forgive ourselves for our past mistakes, release the shame we carry, and learn self-compassion, it will only be a source of pain, not a lesson that we have accepted, taking away the value from our mistakes.
I AM WITHOUT KNOWLEDGE NOW.
The fundamental truth is learning and teaching begins where you are, not where you might wish to be. Life presents itself as an ongoing opportunity for progress and development, starting from the moment you are born. The dormant potential within — the deeper, ancient aspect of your mind — awaits discovery and cultivation.
From the very beginning, learning and teaching are intertwined. As children, we teach patience through sleepless nights, compassion through moments of vulnerability, and joy through curiosity and exploration. We even teach tolerance by testing boundaries. Each interaction is a lesson, shaping not only the child but also those around them. The cycle of teaching and learning is constant, reinforcing the interconnectedness of human experience. The point is profound and enduring.
What do you really know about yourself, your dharma? What do you believe you really know? What frightens you? What do you cherish or value? Think and meditate on this thought, then ask yourself what do I really know? Dig deep and continuously think then examine this. Look at the answers you give to this question to see where the answers come from. Do they represent your beliefs or assumptions or the beliefs or assumptions of other people, parents, or humanity at large? What are the people that surround you the most teach you? Is it time to change your social circle?
To discover your true foundation in the world it is essential to look within and see what constitutes the basis of your understanding of yourself and your understanding of your world. Primarily, much of your understanding will be based on assumptions and it is quite probable that these assumptions will not have been founded upon personal experience to any great degree if at all.
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regards Sybella Loram Spiritual Life Coach and Medium
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